You won’t get it right. It’s anyone’s guess what makes a good life good and a bad one bad, But good, bad, right, wrong, like fast fashion these’ll come in and out and in and out of fashion. But the truth ? The truth of who you are ? That’ll last, that’ll stick, that’ll stay, timeless. And if I had to bet on anything, I’d bet on that. Because there is no winning. There’s only being you, whoever, whatever that is, there is only being you, madly, wildly, expressively you. Because there's no guarantee that any choice is the right move in life. It’s all a guess ! It’s all a gamble ! Nobody has all the answers, we’re all just pretending that we know what the hell is going on here. But if I had to bet on anything I'd bet on the truth. And I have. However unconventional my path has been it was mine, and I walked it as only I could’ve. And the only real mistake I ever made was thinking there was a right way to do this whole damn thing, and that I could avoid it. That I could avoid the getting it wrong, the regrets, the if only’s, the what if’s. There isn’t. Just like there is no winning in life, there is only, being you. So give up. Give up trying to prove the validity of your path to you or anyone else, 'cause they’ll never get it. Give up trying to prove the validity of this path to yourself cause you’ll never get it. Give up the search for answers the search for certainty about the “Am I doing this right ?” Give up, the desperate desire to know where the hell you’re going or where your heart is leading you and if, you’ll love the end destination. Give it up ! the need to fight, the need to explain, or convince anyone you’re winning, Give it up ! Because there is no winning. There is only being you, madly, wildly, unapologetically you.
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